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How To Begin Weight Training

Beginning Weight Training

A lot of my posts so far on this site have been motivational in nature, after reading thru them a few times I feel like I really need to write something that is more instructive and more useful. Hopefully this will be the first of many posts that will give beginning weight trainers the info they need to get started, stick with it and progress.

So on the the meat of the issue, you want to start lifting weights to get stronger, get buff, build confidence, impress members of the opposite sex, perform better at sports or some combination of all of the above. The first step is going to be actually lifting some weights. Luckily for me my dad had been lifting weights his whole life so I had access to his free weights and some machines early on in my training so it was pretty easy for me to get to it. Also luckily for me, in my opinion, is that I can’t ever remember my dad ever giving me any real instruction on the matter. He had tons of books on the subject and magazines and he left me to my own devices as far as researching how to progress and what exercises to do. This helped ingrain a sense of self reliance that became valuable when I picked up BMX riding and later in other endeavors later in my life. He was always there to encourage or lend a spot but never to preach or make me conform to his own ideas. His main advice was always get stronger and stay consistent, and frankly if you only listen to those pieces of advice you will make it pretty damn far.

Not everyone has a parent or older brother to help them so hopefully in this aspect I can be of assistance. If you don’t have access to some free weights at your home the next best option is to see what your high school has available. My high school actually had a really good weight room and strength training program that was part of the regular PE curriculum, but many schools have an afternoon weight lifting program as well.  I would consider something like this to be your best option however I would still encourage you to research the proper methods as high school weight training today is not what it used to be. Do not even consider a program that leaves out heavy squats.

Another option would be to look into joining a local gym or YMCA depending on your age and driver’s license status. If this isn’t an option the last option is to buy some weights and equipment of your own. For less then 700 bucks you can acquire all the basics that you will need to carry you forward. I would suggest trying to find a way to earn the money somehow yourself as opposed to just asking your parents for it. Even if you have to do work around the house for your parents this is the best option as it shows you are serious and more importantly it will convince yourself that you are serious about pursuing this. The basic equipment you will need will be an olympic bar with 300 pounds of weights, a squat stand, and a bench. Shopping around online you may be able to obtain these items fairly cheaply.

What routine should you do once you’ve obtained these items? Although I started with a different routine I would suggest a simple full body style 5×5 routine. Something along the lines of a Starting Strength plan or a Bill Starr 5×5 will work very well for you. If for some reason you can’t afford those books or you are adamant about doing something different the basic exercises you should be doing will be the same. The meat of your training should be made up of squats, over head press and or bench press, deadlifts and or rows, and an olympic lift variation like power cleans. You can also throw in some barbell curls and close grip bench presses to hit the arms. These are the big basics that will suit you well for a long time. While I never did power cleans as a kid, mostly because I was never taught why they were beneficial; the power clean teaches you to apply the strength that you have built with the deadlift, quickly. It teaches you to turn on and accelerate the weight in a way that the deadlift cannot. This helps build athleticism and power, and power is basically strength displayed quickly as Mark Rippetoe says.

The two routines I mentioned above will show you the proper loading that you will need and what days you should lift. In an effort to not plagiarize their work I will recommend that you look those programs up to find out more about them. The absolute most important aspect of any of these plans will be adding weight each workout or each week. This increase in weight is what is going to drive your progress. Do not get mixed up in a lot of bodybuilding magazine info about advanced techniques that allow you to get a burn with lighter weights. There may come a time when stuff like that can be helpful but that is very far down the road. You will not maximize your ability to grow and get stronger using techniques like that as a beginner.

It will be important to leave your ego out of the equation and don’t waste time with a lot of one rep max attempts. You will just be wasting your training time. Instead focus on between 8 and 5 reps for everything and focus on increasing the weight you use for these reps. There will come a time when you will need or want to know your one rep max but again, this is not the time for that. You will not be skilled enough in the lifts to be able to demonstrate an efficient one rep max attempt and you certainly won’t be impressing anyone. Also, except on the arm exercises it will be best to stick to 8 reps or less because in beginning lifters their form tends to break down dramatically after 8 reps. Between 5 and 8 reps should provide all the strength and muscle gains you will need.

The last main point will be to resist adding more and more exercises to your routine. At best these will be a distraction and at worse they may shortcut your gains in the bigger lifts and hinder your ability to recover from workout to workout. A lot of the fluff exercises like flyes, and tons of variations of arm curls and things like that are basically a way to achieve a certain muscular look in the short term at the expense of serious strength and muscle growth in the long term. For beginners these are methods to create a small visual increase in muscle size to impress nonlifters and an excuse to not strive to lift heavier and heavier weights. Build up to a 150% bodyweight bench press, and double bodyweight squat and deadlift and a bodyweight overhead press and you will have much bigger muscles then a guy who spent his time doing shit loads of arm curls and chest flyes. Every kid’s favorite muscle hero spent the time to get big and strong at these basics long before they switched to more isolation, bodybuilding style exercises. Every one of them!

As you can see I’ve left out any mention of nutrition, as that can be an entire article on it’s own. Meat, vegetables and carbs like rice or beans are your friends and I would encourage you to eat lots of these things. If you start to become unable to progress each week then eat more, if you start to become a lot fatter then you intended then cut back on some of the carbs. Do not be obsessed with having abs or staying too lean as these things will hinder progress. If you are fat and wish to lose a lot of weight I would suggest doing that first and then begin training with the weights. Muscle burns fat so an increase in muscle mass will help you lose fat but if you are at an unhealthy weight and believe me you do know if you are or not then I would lose the weight first.

Those points above are all the basics that you need to get bigger and stronger. Be patient and consistent and the gains will come. Things may seem slow at first but in fairly short order the gains will come and they will be dramatic. Resist the urge to over complicate or change the program and continue it until it stops working.

 

Below are some helpful links. These are not affiliate links.

Squat Stand: http://www.mensfitness.com/life/gearandtech/21-things-add-your-home-gym-2015/slide/20

Bench: http://www.elitefts.com/flat-bench-white.html

Power Clean How To: https://youtu.be/mPsxlNjv7Aw

Build Confidence Today!

How to Build Confidence with Weight Training

Today we have a very important topic to discuss, one that is very close to my own initial motivations for beginning weight training and that is how do we build confidence with weight training.

First off, what is confidence? Confidence is the probable certainty of a positive outcome of a specific endeavor that has been determined thru repeated practice and experience. An example would be a willingness or confidence if you will, to take repeated 3 point shots in a basketball game. This readiness to take a higher risk shot is reinforced by one’s previous experience with making 3 point shots. Confidence comes from experience. The difference between confidence and arrogance is that confidence is reinforced by experience where as arrogance is an unrealistic display of confidence.

Weight training is a very good way to begin to build confidence but it must be understood properly and taken into context. Weight training will make you stronger, it will make you more muscular which in our society is a desirable trait to many people in addition to having practical benefits such as protection from injury, weight training shows the value of using incremental increases to drive improvement which is an important lesson that is valuable in many other areas of your life. What weight training will not do on it’s own is make you better at talking to girls, or independent of specific practice make you better at sport skills. It will not improve the way you dress, or your facial structure (other then making you lose fat from your face which can actually help your looks tremendously.)

The two biggest benefits from weight training are 1. All the physical muscle and strength related changes to your body, and the creation of an appreciation for fitness that will stay with you and improve your quality of life in the future, and 2. The confidence that comes from setting goals and doing the work to achieve them and creating a habit of that.

I first decided to get into weight lifting to impress a girl i had a crush on. I was 13 and a very small and nerdy guy, at least to conventional high school kids. I got picked on a lot and was too small and scrawny to attract this girl’s attention who was accustomed to hanging out with the athletic football and baseball guys who were older. This was my initial motivation for picking up the weights.

Within a year the changes to my physique dramatically improved how people looked at me. I was attracting the looks of more girls and I was becoming less and less a target for older kids to pick on. This increase in size and strength pushed me into high school wrestling where my new love of weight training helped me greatly and as my strength and size increased and my wrestling got better and better my confidence grew more and more. This increase in confidence spilled over into my BMX riding as well because my experience with changing my physique and increasing my strength encouraged me to push the limits on my bike more and more. The increase in my resilience to injury and my ability to rapidly recover from injuries further helped build my confidence in BMX to a point where I was able to overcome extreme fear fairly easily. Overall i was getting much more confident in a variety of areas in a large part due to the lasting effects of my passion for weight training. Oddly enough my initial motivation of wanting to impress someone else quickly faded away as a significant external motivator. As I got bigger and stronger my weight lifting goals became more and more focused on benefiting myself and less and less as a means to impress or gain approval from others. This is a healthy step in the road to confidence as it is causing you to accept yourself as having more and more value and you begin to realize that your value is not dependent upon the approval of other people.

Fast forward a few years and I am now 31, and my confidence in many areas has increased dramatically. It’s not to say that I am confident in everything I do all the time, no one is but I am very confident in a lot of situations where I can relate the experience somewhat to my weight training. I’m not the strongest guy in my gym, by a huge amount, or the biggest, or the most ripped, or smartest but I can walk into my gym or any gym anywhere and hold my head high among the best because I know that i have the ability to achieve goals in this aspect of my life. Being confident doesn’t mean you think you are the best, it just means that you act and know that thru experience that you have a high probability of a successful outcome in a given endeavor. I could walk into Westside Barbell tomorrow, home of the strongest powerlifters in the country and be confident, confident that I can learn from these guys, confident that I have some experience that can add to the discussion, confident that I can endure being the weakest guy in the room and still not let that diminish my own value.

An aspect of confidence that is rarely discussed is the ability to accept your failures and short comings and re position them into a positive vehicle to help achieve the results you want. I made a lot of mistakes during the years I’ve been lifting weights, lots of mistakes. These mistakes have allowed me to make positive changes so as to avoid them in the future and it has shown that I can still make progress despite not being perfect, or the smartest, strongest, or whatever.

Enough about me, now on to you, here are some ways that you can build your confidence thru weight training. Obviously you need to start weight training, that should be your first step. I would encourage you to use a simple beginner plan focused around the main compound lifts, and the Olympic style lifts, good examples of plans like this are Mark Rippetoe’s Starting Strength plan, or Bill Starr’s 5×5 of which more info can be found in his book “the Strongest Shall Survive, Strength Training for Football.” A plan that is good for beginners that is more similar to what I used in high school would be Jim Wendler’s 531 program. I have included links to where you can obtain these resources and these are not affiliate links and I am not associated with these people or their products in any way, this is strictly for your benefit.

If you try programs like this and stick to them and be patient and dedicated then you will see results very fast. The good thing about a beginner linear progression plan like these is that you’re going to be making improvements during every workout, you will actually be able to see more and more plates going onto the bar each week and this will begin to show you that by using manageable, incremental increases that you can make significant changes to your physique and your strength and this lesson is applicable in many other areas of your life as well.

Ultimately weight training will teach you that hard work and dedication will take you farther then you can imagine, and as you accomplish more and more goals in this manner it will make you less fearful of striving for new goals in the future, that kids, is confidence.